Monday, November 16, 2009

When should parents stop buying large christmas gifts for their children?

I have noticed, after the age of 20, I started to receive little gifts like toiletries at Christmas, as opposed to larger gifts when I was younger.





What age should parents stop buying larger gifts for their adult children?

When should parents stop buying large christmas gifts for their children?
As soon as they are 18 or leave home. Then the grandkids come and it starts all over again with them. It is all good though. love the grands
Reply:Whenever the parents feel like it or whenever the kids request smaller gifts.
Reply:It depends like what do you give them do expect a car I dont mean to be mean I dont know what you want but finacially they give what you want and what you give your an adult now so they dont want to give you everything to but they might not be able to afford it all there just mean parents.
Reply:I don't think age should play a factor on what adult children get from their parents. Christmas is about being with your family not how large or small the gifts are and when you were younger, things were not as expensive. Just be happy that they are still around to give you a gift.
Reply:When the kids have kids!
Reply:that's like saying when should parents start spending more money on individual gifts.size as is money should never matter. Jesus accepted the song from a lowly peasant child.Compared to the gifts from the three wise men.Its the thought that counts. many will go with out this yr. consider your self fortunate.
Reply:NEVER!


If parents can afford to keep up the tradition in their family do it.


I am a parent. I have two grown sons. One is married. One is not any more. No children. I give the same to them as if they were home. I would ask the girls what they wanted.


If they both would have children my grandchildren, well each of my children and their wives would get one gift each, because the grandchildren would get gifts all from Santa.


My boys and their wives, might get two gifts each. There is NO Age Limit on your children's gifts at Christmas. It is tradition. Now you have to find out what your family's traditions is if your are getting small gifts.
Reply:Never!
Reply:Probably about 18 to 20 or when they are old enough to buy them for their selves.
Reply:When the children reach the age of 16
Reply:why you not getting big presents anymore have to do with kids? sorry confused.


to answer youre question, not really. kids can't afford big presents and they usually wait till christmas to get them. once your in college or out, they should stop because the "kids" should be able to work and get things they want themselves.
Reply:It should depend on needs and finacial means.....if you have the money why not buy your adult child the 300 dollar cappicino maker they were raving a bout Or a new paint job for their car
Reply:When they die, then you get the whole enchilada!
Reply:when they finish college
Reply:It depends on the family. Your parents probably stopped giving large gifts at 20 because that's when their parents stopped with them, so they think it's the right way to do it. My parents still give me large gifts in my 30's but it's not necessarily a good thing because I don't feel motivated to save for those extras. Anyway Christmas isn't just about the stuff you get, right?
Reply:they should not stop


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