What is the best way to let people know you have no money for Christmas gifts?

My family gets really angry when they give you a gift, for even birthdays, and you don't give one in return. I am tyring to avoid being hated. So I'm wondering what would be the best way to let them all know that I have no money and will not be able to get them gifts, so do not get me a gift if you want one in return? Thanks.

What is the best way to let people know you have no money for Christmas gifts?
well, you should never expect gifts or be mad if you dont get them. simply tell them. good luck. if your gonna feel too guilty, you could always bake cookies?
Reply:Yeah I agree with some of the other answerer's. Bake some cookies, or make fudge or coconut ice. I was always taught that it is the thought that counts when someone gives a gift so if they don't like the cookies then you know that they are REALLY materialistic!!!
Reply:send them a nice card and love them (a little note saying sorry I really am strapped this year but want you to know I love you, should be OK.)
Reply:If your family is angry about not recieving gifts, they need to re-examine the holiday. Christmas is traditionally a holiday about giving, NOT about recieving. If your family cares and loves you, they will likely give you something, even if it is small. If you calmly explain to them --- perhaps in writing if a face-to-face conversation will start an argument --- that you are struggling financially and you are unable to participate in gift-giving, hopefully they will understand.





If may also be possible to make some of your closest friends or family gifts. If you can knit, consider making a hat or a scarf for family members. You can burn them music CD's, paint a picture, or any number of other things to show them you care, without spending much money at all.
Reply:Making some bake goods - can always be a good way to show you were thinking about them but don't have the money to buy them something.
Reply:Maybe you could suggest to your family that you all draw names and only get a gift for one person. Or you could get everyone something really cheap.





Or you could do what I do sometimes and use a gift catalog that sells you stuff on credit. There is a company called Figis that gives me $200 in credit every year. You pay it off in three monthly installments, starting in February. And if you are month or two late on a payment, they don't charge late fees.
Reply:You're family sounds materialistic.


I'm sure if you would tell them that if they gave you money, you could give them a present in the next week. They wouldn't fall for that, but it's a good trick.





You could always make them a cake.
Reply:Just be REAL
Reply:You don't have any obligation to tell anyone anything about your financial situation. If they choose to be that greedy and materialistic, that's their problem, not yours. Christmas is NOT about how much money is spent and how extravagant the gifts are. If that is all someone cares about, they need to get their priorities in order, fast. But some people you can't please no matter what you do, even if you do follow their crazy rules.





Why not give homemade gifts instead? Their favorite cookies or other pastries for example. If they don't like it, oh well, at least you tried.
Reply:Just tell them simply that you don't have any money for a gift. But then make them a gift by hand. Use materials that you have on hand, especially recycled materials. There are lots of crafts and homemade gift ideas all over the web. You can also try baking them some cookies or a loaf of bread.





You can make a card out of simple construction paper or card stock. Just fold it in half and create some attractive artwork on the cover. Place a greeting on the front and a personal message inside. It shouldn't cost more than a few cents per card, and yet your family will really appreciate what you've done for them.





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Reply:well your family has a material thing shoved up there butt if i were u and im 12 so i never have much money 4 my mum but make a special card and if your like 18 or just getting started on your own and money is tight then they should understand and you could tell them your money is really tight and they should respect that.and maybe you can make them like a crafty thing or cookies they shouldn't take it so harsh.but i dont have alot of money either im still gettin my mom a 35$ gift card 4 a nail salon and a candle and that isnt too much for a gift.
Reply:Just like that. Tell them in advanced. Send them an e-mail. If they get mad, it is their problem.