Every time I see an offer for a free gifts they want you to fill out an offer for a credit card. Are they all scams? Are there any that you dont have to fill out an offer for a credit card?
How to get free those free gifts?
Yes, those are all scams. If you are looking for true free samples/gifts, try the company's official site. Dove, Pampers, and even Wal-Mart have legit free samples without any gimicks.
Reply:I know its a scam i've tried it and all it gets me is something free but they give offers in it which you can't refuse which you have to pay.
Reply:i looked into it, dont apply, dont try, youll end up ruining your credit score for a free "gift" which you might not even recieve, and even if you do it will take up to 3 months to get it. Not worth it!
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Monday, November 16, 2009
Any ideas for Xmas or Bday gifts for young men ages 12-16 from their Aunt?
I'm looking for inexpensive gifts to give my nephews. I ususally buy from "Ten Thousand Villiages" or other international fair trading sources which do not exploit poor people in 3rd world countries.
I like to give my nephews %26amp; nieces unique gifts. They are from wealthy families and don't need things -- I am on a really tight budget and cannot afford to get them the type of gifts their other relatives give. I genuinely love them want to try to bless them with something meaningful or special as a token of love from me %26amp; my daughter.
The girls are easy, we buy bath or beauty items on sale then add handmade earings or a craft. But the guys? Any ideas, especially from teen boys, of gifts that touched them?
Any ideas for Xmas or Bday gifts for young men ages 12-16 from their Aunt?
Hi, how about giving them a religious pendant. Or maybe finding a leather crafter and having a belt designed just for them? Do you see them often? How about just some homemade baked goods and hide a few dollars in it.
Reply:go to cheap bargain stores and you'll usually find really cool stuff there. i dun have much money so i get my freinds really funky cool stuff from shops like that.
or if you feel thats too cheap then have like a hamper kinda thing where u chuck in something like lollies or chocolate then chuck in like a mini basketball and i little torchlight etc.
Reply:Gift card to Best Buy.
BTW, where would those poor people in the third world countries be without American $ pouring in?
Take a look at the dictators running the countries and then tell me whose fault it is.
Reply:how about a talking chess board? my daughter just turned 13 and rec'v one from her uncle - she loooooovvvvveeesss it!
You can play checkers or chess...against the "computer" or against another person. It actually teaches you how to play.
(got it at toys r us)
Reply:A gift card from the store where the purchase their music. All "tweens" and teenagers love music. You would never be able to pick out what they like. With a gift card, the can pick out their own.
Reply:Try store specializing in puzzles. They have all kinds, including rings that are locked together that you have to figure out how to separate. Or 3-D puzzles are challenging to put together. My son loved trying to "figure it out" the puzzles.
Reply:why don't u get them gift cards to a favorite store or a cd store or game spot. they are good for bdays or holidays
Reply:they are teen boys they prolly wont get one give that touhes them. just find out what they are into
Reply:Books, Kits, like model planes. If there's a puzzle store, look around in there for ideas.
Reply:Telescopes
Microscopes
Electric Train set
Metal detector to find lost coins. I can't think of the proper name.
Cell phone w/ pre-pay card
Reply:I give one of my nephew a coupon for a 2 night stay at my house. He looks forward to them (so i am told by his mom) Then when he turns them in (again with parnets approval) we do whatever he likes. Usual a night at my house he plays games or we watch a movie.
The oldest of the teens I ask him what kinda of gift with a limit amount of money he would like and have him make a list so that way I have a choice and he doesn't know what he is getting. The others kids get craft items i make, but this year they are getting a shoebox to color and inside craft stuff to create to their hearts content. Hope this helps .
Reply:sum kinda game system or cologne
Reply:I think you schoulsd buy them a special shirt or somthing that can't begotten somthing original and unique or make them a giftbasket with things they like.
Reply:I know how it is, I am on a tight budget and my nephews have plenty of money and all they want.
One year I got them penlights that made shapes in the dark. They were like $10. each. maybe even less.
Last year I got them each CD holders that had neon lights on them. They loved them.
Another year I got them key chains with a little flashlight on the end of it.
I like to give my nephews %26amp; nieces unique gifts. They are from wealthy families and don't need things -- I am on a really tight budget and cannot afford to get them the type of gifts their other relatives give. I genuinely love them want to try to bless them with something meaningful or special as a token of love from me %26amp; my daughter.
The girls are easy, we buy bath or beauty items on sale then add handmade earings or a craft. But the guys? Any ideas, especially from teen boys, of gifts that touched them?
Any ideas for Xmas or Bday gifts for young men ages 12-16 from their Aunt?
Hi, how about giving them a religious pendant. Or maybe finding a leather crafter and having a belt designed just for them? Do you see them often? How about just some homemade baked goods and hide a few dollars in it.
Reply:go to cheap bargain stores and you'll usually find really cool stuff there. i dun have much money so i get my freinds really funky cool stuff from shops like that.
or if you feel thats too cheap then have like a hamper kinda thing where u chuck in something like lollies or chocolate then chuck in like a mini basketball and i little torchlight etc.
Reply:Gift card to Best Buy.
BTW, where would those poor people in the third world countries be without American $ pouring in?
Take a look at the dictators running the countries and then tell me whose fault it is.
Reply:how about a talking chess board? my daughter just turned 13 and rec'v one from her uncle - she loooooovvvvveeesss it!
You can play checkers or chess...against the "computer" or against another person. It actually teaches you how to play.
(got it at toys r us)
Reply:A gift card from the store where the purchase their music. All "tweens" and teenagers love music. You would never be able to pick out what they like. With a gift card, the can pick out their own.
Reply:Try store specializing in puzzles. They have all kinds, including rings that are locked together that you have to figure out how to separate. Or 3-D puzzles are challenging to put together. My son loved trying to "figure it out" the puzzles.
Reply:why don't u get them gift cards to a favorite store or a cd store or game spot. they are good for bdays or holidays
Reply:they are teen boys they prolly wont get one give that touhes them. just find out what they are into
Reply:Books, Kits, like model planes. If there's a puzzle store, look around in there for ideas.
Reply:Telescopes
Microscopes
Electric Train set
Metal detector to find lost coins. I can't think of the proper name.
Cell phone w/ pre-pay card
Reply:I give one of my nephew a coupon for a 2 night stay at my house. He looks forward to them (so i am told by his mom) Then when he turns them in (again with parnets approval) we do whatever he likes. Usual a night at my house he plays games or we watch a movie.
The oldest of the teens I ask him what kinda of gift with a limit amount of money he would like and have him make a list so that way I have a choice and he doesn't know what he is getting. The others kids get craft items i make, but this year they are getting a shoebox to color and inside craft stuff to create to their hearts content. Hope this helps .
Reply:sum kinda game system or cologne
Reply:I think you schoulsd buy them a special shirt or somthing that can't begotten somthing original and unique or make them a giftbasket with things they like.
Reply:I know how it is, I am on a tight budget and my nephews have plenty of money and all they want.
One year I got them penlights that made shapes in the dark. They were like $10. each. maybe even less.
Last year I got them each CD holders that had neon lights on them. They loved them.
Another year I got them key chains with a little flashlight on the end of it.
Why do some people go crazy over buying gifts for others?
I have several friends (mostly girls, I'll admit) who think they have to buy stuff - numerous things, or fairly expensive things, for their boyfriends. Why do some people think gifts buy love? These particular friends' boyfriends do not NEED any of this stuff, and probably don't even appreciate the stuff that much. GIFTS DON'T BUY YOU MORE LOVE. When will people realize that?
Why do some people go crazy over buying gifts for others?
Because they want you to know - I can afford this, I have money, I am not a stinge, You are worth so much to me. I think people who buy expensive things that are unnessesary, designer labels, earth destroying cars, scream out "i am insecure"
Reply:I agree with you.
Gifts at christmas does not buy God. God is love!
Reply:LOL, My sis is like that. She did it b/c she wanted ppl to buy her nice things too. After a few years of seeing that most ppl dont care to give others gift, she has stopped buying for others. Unless its children.
Reply:gifts may not buy love, but they help show it. some people like to show the people they love how they feel by buying them presents, to constantly remind them they are loved. its not always a bad thing, but it can go wrong.
Why do some people go crazy over buying gifts for others?
Because they want you to know - I can afford this, I have money, I am not a stinge, You are worth so much to me. I think people who buy expensive things that are unnessesary, designer labels, earth destroying cars, scream out "i am insecure"
Reply:I agree with you.
Gifts at christmas does not buy God. God is love!
Reply:LOL, My sis is like that. She did it b/c she wanted ppl to buy her nice things too. After a few years of seeing that most ppl dont care to give others gift, she has stopped buying for others. Unless its children.
Reply:gifts may not buy love, but they help show it. some people like to show the people they love how they feel by buying them presents, to constantly remind them they are loved. its not always a bad thing, but it can go wrong.
Is ok to ask for money for the honeymoon instead of wedding gifts?
I am planning my 2nd wedding. My fiance' and I both have established households and already will have 2 of everything. We would really like to take a nice honeymoon and wondered about putting on the invitation (which I am making myself) that in lieu of gifts to contribute to the honeymoon fund. Does that sound too tacky? Any other suggestions on how to word it?
Thanks,
Is ok to ask for money for the honeymoon instead of wedding gifts?
No, I'm afraid not. You can have your mom or family members subtly hint to guests that money is your preference, but by inviting people to your wedding, you're inviting them to share in your happiness in whatever way they want, which means they can give whatever gift they want. One way to help encourage money, though, is not to register at many places or for very many things. That way when they ask your family members about gifts, it gives them a chance to say, "well, what they really want is money for their honeymoon." You might be excited to know that many guests give money anyway. . . my husband and I got over $3,000 in cash that we took on our honeymoon.
Reply:You asked a question and didn't like the answers, next time you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask the question Report It
Reply:NO, of course it is NOT okay to ask for money for the honeymoon, or for anything else! You and your bf have to budget for the honeymoon yourselves, if you can't afford where you want to go, you change your plans, or just don't go right after the wedding. It is surely NOT the guests' responsibility to pay for that for you, nor should you even think of asking such a thing!!!
Especially with a second wedding....
Guests are not required to get a wedding gift, however most do. They would get something they choose, that they deem suitable for the couple. It's not their 'fault' that the two of you have established households already -- usually the reason for shower and wedding gifts is to help the couple get started in their new home together. Either you just graciously accept whatever people will chose to get for you, or you could always politely state "No gifts, please." - NOT be selfish and greedy and ask for money instead.
Reply:That is tacky and rude. You should NOT mention gifts in your invitation at all.
Gift suggestions of any kind should be spread by word of mouth only.
Reply:No it's not okay. You can do this with say immediate family but not anyone else.
Reply:Very tacky. Im getting married in July (2nd marriage for both of us too) and though I couldnt agree with you more (it is what we want to) To imply that a gift is expected cash or otherwise is in bad form no matter what # wedding your on.
Reply:I'm not Dear Abby or anything but I'm telling you that is very tacky. I would be insulted if I received an invitation like that.
First of all if you are invited to a wedding you are under no obligation to bring anything at all. But if you are bringing a gift it is inappropriate for you to request of your guests to bring cash only.
Reply:you can have your second wedding as big as you want. dont listen to that other person. It is tacky to ask for monetary gifts only but if your invitations dont have a registry assignment attached to it your guests wont have any other choice but to give you money. have a big beautiful wedding. I hope your big day is wonderful as is your honeymoon.
Reply:Tacky, tacky, tacky! Begging for money is NEVER okay! You're not supposed to ask for gifts at all, let alone tell them you want money instead.
Nobody has to buy a gift, especially for a 2nd wedding. If they choose to, say thank you, graciously, no matter what the gift might be.
If you told me to give you money, I'd either give you a toaster or some towels, or would not even attend, and forget any gift I might have been considering.
Reply:Wedding guests are offended and insulted when a Bride and Groom put that type of information on a wedding invitation, it is inappropriate and does not belong there.
Consider a "honeymoon" registry which is similiar to a gift registry or gift list. Have your parents and wedding party members pass that information "by word of mouth" to the invited guests.
Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / A Professional bridal consultant / A Wedding ceremony officiant
Reply:One never, ever mentions gifts in a wedding invitation. The reason is that gifts are optional. Yes, pretty much everyone will want to give you something, but they are not obliged to give you anything. Yes, you'd like to get what you'd like to get, but you are not allowed to dictate what form the gift will take.
The one thing you can do is pass the word to everyone in the wedding party and both immediate families that you'd prefer monetary gifts. Then people can ask whoever they know best among the families or wedding party and get the word from them. Anyone who consults with those in the know will be given the word on what you'd like. Anyone who doesn't consult them will be deciding completely on their own.
No matter what you ask for, there will always be someone who doesn't follow the register or send the hoped-for check. Yes, you must be gracious about whatever is given you. It's a gift. It's a tangible expression of love and support. Accept it with a smile and sincere expression of gratitude.
Reply:That is tacky, you shouldn't be having a big 2nd wedding, it should be small and private, with no gifts. sell his stuff and go on your honeymoon with that.
Reply:YES! Any mention of gifts on the invitation period is tacky. It is even more offensive when you are dictating what type of gift your guests are "allowed" to give you. Gifts are optional. It makes it look like a gift is required for their prescence.
Information about where you are registered or prefrences like wanted cash for a honeymoon instead of boxed gifts should only be spread through word of mouth. Period. You can tell your parents and members of the bridal party and when somebody asks what to get you or where you are registered thats when they are told you would prefer money for a honeymoon.
For later posters who I know will say "but so and so did it and they had the cutest poem!". I see people pick their noses in public too. Does that make it any less disgusting and mean we should all start doing it?
Reply:Absolutely do not put wording on your invitation-as practical as it is, people will consider this very tacky. Here is what you do-tell everyone verbally about this website-
www.honeyfund.com. This site allows your guests to contribute to your honeymoon. Tell your family and friends that this is where you are registered, and they will be happy to contribute.
Reply:You can sign up for travel registries online or at some travel agencies.
Reply:It is ALWAYS tacky to ask for money, even more so on the invitation! People always ask friends and family of the bride and groom where they are registered, so make a honeymoon registry instead and have your friends and family spread the word. Regardless, you will still get some gifts, some people just don't follow registries, but that'll at least help.
Reply:Tacky to say :toward hoenymoon fund" but asking for money is acceptable. Ive been to several weddings where the couple was moving out of town so it was just not practical to give gifts. The wording they used was something like "You're presence is the greatest gift we could ask for but if you choose to bring along a small gift, special circumstances allow for....."
Reply:Hi, My Fiancee and I are doing the same thing this summer and is what I did for the invitations is just include a seperate piece of paper stating the address and explaining the details and also a little paragraph explaining that we are having a wishing well wedding. I found my little paragraph online. just type in "wishing well wedding verse" you will be able to find one that suits you. Some are really quite cute. Congratulations to you both! All the best to you and yours.
Thanks,
Is ok to ask for money for the honeymoon instead of wedding gifts?
No, I'm afraid not. You can have your mom or family members subtly hint to guests that money is your preference, but by inviting people to your wedding, you're inviting them to share in your happiness in whatever way they want, which means they can give whatever gift they want. One way to help encourage money, though, is not to register at many places or for very many things. That way when they ask your family members about gifts, it gives them a chance to say, "well, what they really want is money for their honeymoon." You might be excited to know that many guests give money anyway. . . my husband and I got over $3,000 in cash that we took on our honeymoon.
Reply:You asked a question and didn't like the answers, next time you don't want to hear the truth, don't ask the question Report It
Reply:NO, of course it is NOT okay to ask for money for the honeymoon, or for anything else! You and your bf have to budget for the honeymoon yourselves, if you can't afford where you want to go, you change your plans, or just don't go right after the wedding. It is surely NOT the guests' responsibility to pay for that for you, nor should you even think of asking such a thing!!!
Especially with a second wedding....
Guests are not required to get a wedding gift, however most do. They would get something they choose, that they deem suitable for the couple. It's not their 'fault' that the two of you have established households already -- usually the reason for shower and wedding gifts is to help the couple get started in their new home together. Either you just graciously accept whatever people will chose to get for you, or you could always politely state "No gifts, please." - NOT be selfish and greedy and ask for money instead.
Reply:That is tacky and rude. You should NOT mention gifts in your invitation at all.
Gift suggestions of any kind should be spread by word of mouth only.
Reply:No it's not okay. You can do this with say immediate family but not anyone else.
Reply:Very tacky. Im getting married in July (2nd marriage for both of us too) and though I couldnt agree with you more (it is what we want to) To imply that a gift is expected cash or otherwise is in bad form no matter what # wedding your on.
Reply:I'm not Dear Abby or anything but I'm telling you that is very tacky. I would be insulted if I received an invitation like that.
First of all if you are invited to a wedding you are under no obligation to bring anything at all. But if you are bringing a gift it is inappropriate for you to request of your guests to bring cash only.
Reply:you can have your second wedding as big as you want. dont listen to that other person. It is tacky to ask for monetary gifts only but if your invitations dont have a registry assignment attached to it your guests wont have any other choice but to give you money. have a big beautiful wedding. I hope your big day is wonderful as is your honeymoon.
Reply:Tacky, tacky, tacky! Begging for money is NEVER okay! You're not supposed to ask for gifts at all, let alone tell them you want money instead.
Nobody has to buy a gift, especially for a 2nd wedding. If they choose to, say thank you, graciously, no matter what the gift might be.
If you told me to give you money, I'd either give you a toaster or some towels, or would not even attend, and forget any gift I might have been considering.
Reply:Wedding guests are offended and insulted when a Bride and Groom put that type of information on a wedding invitation, it is inappropriate and does not belong there.
Consider a "honeymoon" registry which is similiar to a gift registry or gift list. Have your parents and wedding party members pass that information "by word of mouth" to the invited guests.
Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / A Professional bridal consultant / A Wedding ceremony officiant
Reply:One never, ever mentions gifts in a wedding invitation. The reason is that gifts are optional. Yes, pretty much everyone will want to give you something, but they are not obliged to give you anything. Yes, you'd like to get what you'd like to get, but you are not allowed to dictate what form the gift will take.
The one thing you can do is pass the word to everyone in the wedding party and both immediate families that you'd prefer monetary gifts. Then people can ask whoever they know best among the families or wedding party and get the word from them. Anyone who consults with those in the know will be given the word on what you'd like. Anyone who doesn't consult them will be deciding completely on their own.
No matter what you ask for, there will always be someone who doesn't follow the register or send the hoped-for check. Yes, you must be gracious about whatever is given you. It's a gift. It's a tangible expression of love and support. Accept it with a smile and sincere expression of gratitude.
Reply:That is tacky, you shouldn't be having a big 2nd wedding, it should be small and private, with no gifts. sell his stuff and go on your honeymoon with that.
Reply:YES! Any mention of gifts on the invitation period is tacky. It is even more offensive when you are dictating what type of gift your guests are "allowed" to give you. Gifts are optional. It makes it look like a gift is required for their prescence.
Information about where you are registered or prefrences like wanted cash for a honeymoon instead of boxed gifts should only be spread through word of mouth. Period. You can tell your parents and members of the bridal party and when somebody asks what to get you or where you are registered thats when they are told you would prefer money for a honeymoon.
For later posters who I know will say "but so and so did it and they had the cutest poem!". I see people pick their noses in public too. Does that make it any less disgusting and mean we should all start doing it?
Reply:Absolutely do not put wording on your invitation-as practical as it is, people will consider this very tacky. Here is what you do-tell everyone verbally about this website-
www.honeyfund.com. This site allows your guests to contribute to your honeymoon. Tell your family and friends that this is where you are registered, and they will be happy to contribute.
Reply:You can sign up for travel registries online or at some travel agencies.
Reply:It is ALWAYS tacky to ask for money, even more so on the invitation! People always ask friends and family of the bride and groom where they are registered, so make a honeymoon registry instead and have your friends and family spread the word. Regardless, you will still get some gifts, some people just don't follow registries, but that'll at least help.
Reply:Tacky to say :toward hoenymoon fund" but asking for money is acceptable. Ive been to several weddings where the couple was moving out of town so it was just not practical to give gifts. The wording they used was something like "You're presence is the greatest gift we could ask for but if you choose to bring along a small gift, special circumstances allow for....."
Reply:Hi, My Fiancee and I are doing the same thing this summer and is what I did for the invitations is just include a seperate piece of paper stating the address and explaining the details and also a little paragraph explaining that we are having a wishing well wedding. I found my little paragraph online. just type in "wishing well wedding verse" you will be able to find one that suits you. Some are really quite cute. Congratulations to you both! All the best to you and yours.
What are some cute, homemade gifts for a birthday?
So I am currently running short on money, but what are some nice, and cute gifts for a girl, for her birthday? Thanks♥
What are some cute, homemade gifts for a birthday?
burn a cd
make a card bake her a cake
give her 10 bucks with a scrap book of you to.
Reply:Depending on her age there are so many different things you could do. making jean purses is one of my joys. you could make lipgloss. all of these instructions can be found if you search on google.
Reply:Blanket- you just buy some warm, fuzzy, cute material at Wal-Mart and sew the edges.
Picture frames with a memorable pictures in it. (You can buy frame that can be painted and decorated at the Dollar Store)
You can always make up a goodie basket of some sort with things that she likes. Buy a cute basket at the Dollar Store or something and fill it with her favorite candy, soaps, and mini nailpolishes and other beauty items that you can get for coins.
Reply:If it's for a friend make a cute little scrap book of pictures of you two or of all the things you did with her. Leave some pages blank so she can add stuff if she wants.
Or buy a cheap photo frame and decorate it and again put a picture of you two in it.
Reply:u could make a pictureframe with a pic of u2 in it
Reply:lets see......a sticker collection. a cookie kit.
Hotel Blu
What are some cute, homemade gifts for a birthday?
burn a cd
make a card bake her a cake
give her 10 bucks with a scrap book of you to.
Reply:Depending on her age there are so many different things you could do. making jean purses is one of my joys. you could make lipgloss. all of these instructions can be found if you search on google.
Reply:Blanket- you just buy some warm, fuzzy, cute material at Wal-Mart and sew the edges.
Picture frames with a memorable pictures in it. (You can buy frame that can be painted and decorated at the Dollar Store)
You can always make up a goodie basket of some sort with things that she likes. Buy a cute basket at the Dollar Store or something and fill it with her favorite candy, soaps, and mini nailpolishes and other beauty items that you can get for coins.
Reply:If it's for a friend make a cute little scrap book of pictures of you two or of all the things you did with her. Leave some pages blank so she can add stuff if she wants.
Or buy a cheap photo frame and decorate it and again put a picture of you two in it.
Reply:u could make a pictureframe with a pic of u2 in it
Reply:lets see......a sticker collection. a cookie kit.
Hotel Blu
Who is the decision maker at a car dealership for thank you gifts for customers?
Who decides if the dealership send small gifts to thank customers for purchasing their vehicle at the dealership?
Who is the decision maker at a car dealership for thank you gifts for customers?
It can be anyone from the salesperson to the car manufacturer's marketing department.
Reply:Salesman, sales manager or customer relations person.
Reply:That depends. If the small gift has the salespersons photo/contact info on it, chances are it was bought and sent directly from them. If all it has is the dealerships information it was probably a standard token gift given to all customers. Regardless of who sent it, keep in mind that 50% of dealerships send nothing at all. Since you did get a gift (however small) it shows they appreciate your business. NOW, wait and see if you get a thank you call 6 months from now or if you are forgotten about. That's the true sign of a dealer/salesperson that has an honest interest in your satisfaction!
Reply:The sales manager most likely. Best way to find out is to ask the receptionist, they know who decides.
Reply:Most likely the salesperson.
Who is the decision maker at a car dealership for thank you gifts for customers?
It can be anyone from the salesperson to the car manufacturer's marketing department.
Reply:Salesman, sales manager or customer relations person.
Reply:That depends. If the small gift has the salespersons photo/contact info on it, chances are it was bought and sent directly from them. If all it has is the dealerships information it was probably a standard token gift given to all customers. Regardless of who sent it, keep in mind that 50% of dealerships send nothing at all. Since you did get a gift (however small) it shows they appreciate your business. NOW, wait and see if you get a thank you call 6 months from now or if you are forgotten about. That's the true sign of a dealer/salesperson that has an honest interest in your satisfaction!
Reply:The sales manager most likely. Best way to find out is to ask the receptionist, they know who decides.
Reply:Most likely the salesperson.
When did Easter gifts become so much more than candy in a basket?
Many parents are now buying there kids these expensive gifts like: new bikes, game systems, iPODs, etc.
Am I just old?? I was lucky to get a stuffed bunny in my candy filled basket.
What are your thoughts?
When did Easter gifts become so much more than candy in a basket?
Well thank heavens it isn't only me! I noticed that too and now somewhat participate in it because I feel, to an extent, that I have to! No really big ticket items until xmas or preferably birthday but I've added books, action figures, and this year a video game.
When I was a kid, the prepared baskets in stores had some candy and maybe one or two stuffed animals or a yo yo or stickers. Now, go to the store and what do you see? They are all giant baskets stuffed with sports equipment, cars/trucks/planes, giant art sets, etc.
It's the increase in consumerism and the desensitivity to stimulation. If I got one stereo and nothing else for xmas, I was through the roof with excitement. Now, if a kid gets one stereo for xmas, the attitude is "that's it?"
If gifts are from parents, then they can be explained away by the family budget or family values. But Santa, the Easter Bunny, and the tooth fairy are supposed to be equal with limitless resources and therefore parents must do what others are doing. If Santa gives the neighbor a bike and you got a shirt/if the Easter bunny gives your classmate a Nintendo DS and you got a chocolate bunny/if the tooth fairy gives your cousin 10 dollars and you got a quarter....how would a parent explain that?
Reply:Maybe kids have been bugging the parents about it and the parents see it as a way of getting their kids off their back.
Reply:It is all the marketing done by the toy companies. They make such cute Easter editions of popular toys like Barbie, Dora, Mr. Potato Head, etc. that parents feel compelled to buy something like that for their kids basket. I am guilty of it too!
Reply:i didnt even know people gave gifts for easter? thats very strange, considering its not viewed as a gift giving holiday. people are so strange.
Reply:theere way more than candy and have been for a while
Reply:I agree with you, I used to always be thankful for the candy I got. These days, it seems every holiday has to include gifts of some sort. It gets a little ridiculous!
I still have yet to decide if my kids are going to be getting anything more than candy baskets.
Reply:I started giving my stepdaughters small gifts in their baskets a few years ago. Our main reason was they were already overweight and did not need more sweets. But they got small presents maybe a polly pocket, clothes for cabbage patch babys. No big ticket items here. We also keep up the idea with our 2 yr old. Today she is getting a stuffed bunny and a new purse with a few candies in it and a container of shaped magnets. Thats it!!!! Also, the price of a chocolate bunny these days, I might as well buy a small toy, something that will be around for more than a day!!!!!! We do a family basket with a movie and my husbands favorite candy, but we can control the candy out of that basket easier than out of their own!!
Reply:lol...thats true...i dont get that stuff..usually a couple of marshmallow bunnies and a shirt or a stuffed animal!!!!
Am I just old?? I was lucky to get a stuffed bunny in my candy filled basket.
What are your thoughts?
When did Easter gifts become so much more than candy in a basket?
Well thank heavens it isn't only me! I noticed that too and now somewhat participate in it because I feel, to an extent, that I have to! No really big ticket items until xmas or preferably birthday but I've added books, action figures, and this year a video game.
When I was a kid, the prepared baskets in stores had some candy and maybe one or two stuffed animals or a yo yo or stickers. Now, go to the store and what do you see? They are all giant baskets stuffed with sports equipment, cars/trucks/planes, giant art sets, etc.
It's the increase in consumerism and the desensitivity to stimulation. If I got one stereo and nothing else for xmas, I was through the roof with excitement. Now, if a kid gets one stereo for xmas, the attitude is "that's it?"
If gifts are from parents, then they can be explained away by the family budget or family values. But Santa, the Easter Bunny, and the tooth fairy are supposed to be equal with limitless resources and therefore parents must do what others are doing. If Santa gives the neighbor a bike and you got a shirt/if the Easter bunny gives your classmate a Nintendo DS and you got a chocolate bunny/if the tooth fairy gives your cousin 10 dollars and you got a quarter....how would a parent explain that?
Reply:Maybe kids have been bugging the parents about it and the parents see it as a way of getting their kids off their back.
Reply:It is all the marketing done by the toy companies. They make such cute Easter editions of popular toys like Barbie, Dora, Mr. Potato Head, etc. that parents feel compelled to buy something like that for their kids basket. I am guilty of it too!
Reply:i didnt even know people gave gifts for easter? thats very strange, considering its not viewed as a gift giving holiday. people are so strange.
Reply:theere way more than candy and have been for a while
Reply:I agree with you, I used to always be thankful for the candy I got. These days, it seems every holiday has to include gifts of some sort. It gets a little ridiculous!
I still have yet to decide if my kids are going to be getting anything more than candy baskets.
Reply:I started giving my stepdaughters small gifts in their baskets a few years ago. Our main reason was they were already overweight and did not need more sweets. But they got small presents maybe a polly pocket, clothes for cabbage patch babys. No big ticket items here. We also keep up the idea with our 2 yr old. Today she is getting a stuffed bunny and a new purse with a few candies in it and a container of shaped magnets. Thats it!!!! Also, the price of a chocolate bunny these days, I might as well buy a small toy, something that will be around for more than a day!!!!!! We do a family basket with a movie and my husbands favorite candy, but we can control the candy out of that basket easier than out of their own!!
Reply:lol...thats true...i dont get that stuff..usually a couple of marshmallow bunnies and a shirt or a stuffed animal!!!!
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